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What is success?
SUCCESS WINNING FORMULAE
Winners are
not born. People are converted to winners by themselves
What is success?
Success is fixing , reaching and achieving goals in life. Success is
victory, success is prosperity and Success is happiness. What is success
for one, many not be success for other. To become a winner in life, we
should have right kind of attitude. ie: Attitiude of a winner.
Once upon a
time, in a village, there lived a young and strong man. The only problem
with the young man was that he was jobless. After searching & searching, he
got a wood cutting job. The owner of the timber camp gave him a new axe.
With this new axe he started cutting the trees with zeal and enthusiasm.
First day ,
he was able to cut 8 huge trees. The second day 7, Third day 6 and the
performance went down daily and on the 8th day he was unable to
cut even a single tree. The owner of the timber camp asked the young man “
How come your performance is coming down & down everyday””. The Young man
said “ Sir, I have been working for the same length of time with the same
zeal and enthusiasm and with the same axe you gave me. But I don’t know why
my performance is going down everyday. Bose asked him” Young man have you
taken sometime of your schedule to sharpen your axe. The young man said “ No
Sir, I was too busy.”
The owner
looked at the eyes of the young man and told ” Young man , please
understand, it is not important to work harder, it is very important to
work sharper.
So working
sharper is the secret of success. So let us analyze the tools which can
helps us to work sharper.
”All things
are done twice in this world. Once in our mind and secondly in the physical
world. Whatever you want to become, picturize it in your mind and the
subconscious mind will make you happen, provided you follow certain winning
formulae. Let us list out some of the winning formulae.
Time:
Time is something which has been given to us in equal amount . Irrespective
of cast , creed, gender , age, country etc., everyone gets equal amount of
time ie. 24 hours. Once you have lost it, you can not get it back. The
person who win is the person who properly utilize his time. So winning
formulae no.1 is Time Management.
Communication
& speaking skills:
It is always very important to convey your thoughts and messages properly to
the people you are dealing with. This is possible only through improving
your communication and speaking skills
. Speaking skills gives you a lot of courage and confidence and earns
respect and admiration from the society. Remember, Poets are born; Orators
are made," .
So winning formula 2 is Mastering communication & speaking skills.
Self
confidence:
It is the strong belief in yourself and your abilities. A talented man
without confidence is like a powerful car without spark plugs. It give you
exceptional courage to perform unbelievable tasks. Self confidence is a
psychological steroid that boosts our power. “ The man who wins is the man
who thinks he can.” So winning formulae 3 is developing Self confidence.
Human
relationship:
No one is independent in life. We
depend on others right from our birth till our death. Every person, no
matter how big or small he is a stepping stone to our success. Remember, "A
single flower does not make a garland." So Winning formula 4 is keeping
excellent relationship with people around you
Fixing Proper goal in life :
There should be proper goals in life. By setting a goal, you decide what you
want to achieve. Then create step by step moves toward the achievement of
these objectives. To reach this goal , you will come across different
situations which may give you enjoyment in life. So winning formulae 5 is
fixing sharp & clearly defined goals
Health :
If wealth is lost, something is lost. But if health is lost, everything is
lost. Health is the most important aspect in life. Stress is one thing which
affects the health. When stress is increased, it becomes distress and body
starts showing continuous head ache, bronchial asthma, lack of memory,
concentration, heart attack, High blood pressure, indigestion etc. Stress
can not be avoided and only can be managed. Relaxation techniques such as
yoga, meditation etc.can help to manage stress. Hence winning formula no6 is
practicing relaxation techniques
Knowledge :
Knowledge is power. Earning latest knowledge & skills, will remove fear of
losing jobs and it gives extra courage to deal with life’s different
situations. So acquiring knowledge is winning formula 7
Creative thinking:
All of us are gifted with a lot of creative potential. But it lies deep.
Just as the sculptor has to chip away some stone with his chisel to release
the statue, we have to chip away some of our conventional thinking to
release our creative potential. Developing creative thinkinf is formulae
no.8
Sharp memory: Memory is a yardstick to
measure one’s personality. The secret of sharp memory lies in systematic
storage that facilitates instant retrieval. Everyone of us can have a sharp
memory irrespective of age, education and intelligence. Remember, "If you
don’t use it, you will soon lose it" . Winning formula 9 is sharp memory.
There are some more aspects which affects the success of a person.
Optimist attitude.
Respecting elders, & superiors
Controlling anger
Honesty in your dealings
Fellow FRIENDS,
There is a
beautiful say that whatever a mind of a person can conceive and believe . it
can achieve. If you master these habits or skills, you can sure to become
winner.. These habits are to be consciously acquired, sub-consciously adhere
to and finally practiced. When you take care of these, success becomes
mandatory and you will be sure winner.
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