The frail old man and the wooden bowl
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A frail old man went to live with his son,
daughter-in-law, and four-year old grandson. The old man's hands trembled, his
eyesight was blurred, and his step faltered. The family ate together at the
But the elderly grandfather's shaky hands and failing sight made eating
difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon onto the floor. When he grasped the glass,
milk spilled on the tablecloth.
The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the mess. "We must do
something about father," said the son. "I've had enough of his spilled milk,
noisy eating, and food on the floor."
So the husband and wife set a small table in the corner. There, Grandfather ate
alone while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner. Since Grandfather had broken
a dish or two, his food was served in a wooden bowl!
When the family glanced in Grandfather's direction, sometime he had a tear in
his eye as he sat alone. Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp
admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food.
The four-year-old watched it all in silence.
One evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing with wood scraps
on the floor. He asked the child sweetly, "What are you making?"
Just as sweetly, the boy responded, "Oh, I am making a little bowl for you and
Mama to eat your food in when I grow up." The four-year-old smiled and went back
to work .
The words so struck the parents so that they were speechless. Then tears started
to stream down their cheeks. Though no word was spoken, both knew what must be
That evening the husband took Grandfather's hand and gently led him back to the
family table. For the remainder of his days he ate every meal with the family.
And for some reason, neither husband nor wife seemed to care any longer when a
fork was dropped, milk spilled, or the tablecloth soiled.
On a positive note, I've learned that, no matter what happens, how bad it seems
today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.
I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles
four things: a rainy day, the elderly, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree
I've learned that, regardless of your relationship with your parents, you'll
miss them when they're gone from your life.
I've learned that making a "living" is not the e same thing as making a "life.."
I've learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance.
I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both
hands. You need to be able to throw something back.
I've learned that if you pursue happiness, it will elude you. But if you focus
on your family, your friends, the needs of others, your work and doing the very
best you can, happiness will find you.
I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make
the right decision.
I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.
I've learned that every day, you should reach out and touch someone.
People love that human touch -- holding hands, a warm hug, or just a friendly
pat on the back.
I've learned that I still have a lot to learn!
By Author unknown